the PATH YOU are CHOOSING
determines the quality of your life
Every single moment on every single day we have a choice. We can choose how to respond to the situation we are experiencing. We can choose to become a victim of our circumstances and stay where we are with accompanied feelings of stagnation, lack of fulfilment, or even depression.
Or we can choose to take ownership for our experience and empower ourselves by acting upon the truth of the matter. We can shift our lives when we are willing to do the work. To go to the places that take us to our edge.
we will unravel the knots to get down to the truth of the matter
when working together
I am not a traditional couch therapist. I am not just there nodding my head - I am a fellow traveller accompanying you. When we work together, we try to get out of the way so that a greater intelligence can move through and we are able to listen to the energy. Energy never lies. I don’t give a fuck about right or wrong, my personal beliefs are not getting involved, I am only in service of the truth in the moment. There are two ways in which we can work together.
1:1 sessions
In a 1:1 trajectory we will go on a journey of exploration together in one or several private sessions. All questions and issues are welcome. The only requirement for me to work with you is for you to be hungry for change and to be willing to do the work.
workshops and retreats
In group work we will be going on an intense journey together with other people. In group work there is more mirroring and reflection happening and therefore, the potential for transformation is bigger. I facilitate various day workshops and multiple day retreats.
an open, non-judgemental, practical and no bullshit attitude
what you can expect
There are a couple of values and behavioural principles that I aspire to live by and that are of utmost importance in the way we work together.
Presence - It all starts with the ability to listen deeply with a never-ending curiosity.
Non-judgemental - If I haven’t done it, I have thought about it. Nothing that I will encounter or experience is too much, too little, too whatever.
Relaxation - a grounding confidence that is rooted in non-efforting and is not goal-oriented.
Attunement - tuning into the energy of myself, the person, the field. Listening to what is said between the words. Meeting the people where they are at on a deeper level - beyond the story.
Mirroring - exploring a cave together - as fellow travellers - shining light on places that are uncomfortable.
Practicality - efficiency, getting to the point and essence without any blabla. Just do it and trust. Down-to-earth.
what you will get out of it
a sense of freedom from within
The reward of going to, exposing and befriending our vulnerable places is beyond what we can imagine with our minds. It is a sense of freedom that comes from certain qualities that you will experience.
Acceptance - acceptance of who you are, the man/woman behind the mask, not wanting to change, hide or fix anything. You will be able to make friends with your shadow. You will be able to allow the intimacy of that.
Inner authority - having the confidence to back up your intuition and truth, learning how to distinguish between your inner authority and your ego structure. Backing up your NOs, backing up your boundaries, not giving in to the ‘good girl and boy’ program.
Relaxation - the feeling of the penny dropping. The ‘AHA’ moments, when the actual truth lands in the body, where up till that moment the mind had been busy and had occupied all the space and taken all the energy
Empowerment - being connected to life force energy, having the clarity and taking responsibility for the right action in each moment.
what clients say
testimonials
“Sidhamo holds a grounded, authentic and powerful space. His guidance, vulnerability and clean presence allows me to feel safe to step into my full potential, and my truest nature. He leads by example, and I therefore trust him fully.”
Jesse
“Working with Sidhamo has been an incredibly transformative experience. His heart-centered approach created a safe and compassionate space that allowed me to open up to my vulnerability and explore it deeply. Sidhamo’ s intuition, honest guidance, and genuine presence made me feel truly seen and supported. I experience a greater sense of self-acceptance, clarity, and a renewed connection to my heart, my center and my spirit.”
Mushkan
“Working with Sidhamo has been profoundly life changing. His ability to see, hear, and feel what lies beneath my words means he is able to guide me to see the core of what is no longer serving me, and causing disharmony in my life. He enables me to find the empowerment I need to shift and release these patterns and programs, which has me leaving every session feeling brighter and clearer, and more in control of my life. Sidhamo has been like a teacher, counsellor, and a closest friend who offers the safest space where absolutely anything is welcome.”
Chris
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